KID FREE KAY says...
I am a childfree woman who is writing a book called "Kidfree & Lovin' It."
I have an online survey that over 2,500 childless around the world have taken, and would love you to take it too!Just click on this link to take you there, and you can remain anonymous if you like:http://tinyurl.com/Kidfree-Survey
And, if you are single, here is the new Childfree Dating Survey:http://tinyurl.com/Childfree-Dating-Survey
Thanks, and enjoy!
KidfreeKayewww.kidfreeandlovinit.com
11/13/08
IF YOU DON'T WANT CHILDREN USE CONTRACEPTION!
Ladies and Gentleman, if you do not want a child right now, if you are unable to go through a pregnancy healthy or do not have reason to believe you can support that child, USE CONTRACEPTION!
Through my lifetime I have known women who became pregnant while using contraception - the pill, the IUD, diaphragms, spermicides, condoms, and even one woman who had her tubes "tied" but somehow they grew back together! I pitied these women who had to make the hard decision of adoption or abortion, having a child before they were ready, forcing a relationship between the man who provided the sperm when he was not ready for marriage.
CONTRACEPTION IS NOT PERFECT.
Not every woman can use every method! Still, not using contraception at all is downright craziness if you don't want a child. You have to at least try to prevent becoming pregnant !
So before you are forced into a tough decision that probably will only get more expensive, USE CONTRACEPTION.
THAT GOES FOR YOU MEN OUT THERE DOUBLE !
If you are not using a rubber every time you have sex, you are asking for fatherhood!
Use condoms every time, even if you know or believe your lover is using contraception.
IT'S SAFE SEX TOO !
Sister
Through my lifetime I have known women who became pregnant while using contraception - the pill, the IUD, diaphragms, spermicides, condoms, and even one woman who had her tubes "tied" but somehow they grew back together! I pitied these women who had to make the hard decision of adoption or abortion, having a child before they were ready, forcing a relationship between the man who provided the sperm when he was not ready for marriage.
CONTRACEPTION IS NOT PERFECT.
Not every woman can use every method! Still, not using contraception at all is downright craziness if you don't want a child. You have to at least try to prevent becoming pregnant !
So before you are forced into a tough decision that probably will only get more expensive, USE CONTRACEPTION.
THAT GOES FOR YOU MEN OUT THERE DOUBLE !
If you are not using a rubber every time you have sex, you are asking for fatherhood!
Use condoms every time, even if you know or believe your lover is using contraception.
IT'S SAFE SEX TOO !
Sister
11/6/08
OBAMA ELECTED NEXT U.S. PRESIDENT and HERE'S TO JAMES BUCHANAN
James Buchanan, the 15th U.S. President, the one before Abraham Lincoln, was the only president of the United States to never marry or have children. Click on the title above to get to the POTUS (Presidents of the United States) site and start reading a bit about J.B.
Was he really so heartbroken over a broken engagement that he never thought to marry again, in times when it was quite rare to go single? Was he perhaps homosexual and not inclined to a cover marriage? Or perhaps a confirmed careerist who knew his limits when it came to giving his time and energy?
Was he really so heartbroken over a broken engagement that he never thought to marry again, in times when it was quite rare to go single? Was he perhaps homosexual and not inclined to a cover marriage? Or perhaps a confirmed careerist who knew his limits when it came to giving his time and energy?
11/5/08
CHILDFREE BY CHOICE - check out this link
According to the article/website for CHILDFREE BY CHOICE, being childfree is a "growing phenomenon."
"According to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 1975 about one in eleven women was childless by the age of 44. By 1993, that number had risen to approximately one in six. 34.9 million American families were childless and only 33.3 million families had a child under the age of 18."
"According to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 1975 about one in eleven women was childless by the age of 44. By 1993, that number had risen to approximately one in six. 34.9 million American families were childless and only 33.3 million families had a child under the age of 18."
10/28/08
HALLOWEEN BRINGS UP THE PERSECUTION OF "WITCHES"
Halloween and it's celebration of the witch - sometimes depicted as a beautiful, sexy, "Good Witch," but more often the elderly ugly "Bad Witch" or "Hag," reminds Sister here of the fact that through history many NMNK women have been the ones suspected of, accused of, and convicted of witchcraft or sorcery. 
Though witchcraft no doubt existed and exists, from what I've learned about the subject, it is often those who are or appear defenseless because they have no familial or husbandly protection that are easily singled out for abuse, harassment, and victimization.
Today people who do not marry and/or have no children are still thought of as odd, and while some of them perhaps have little choice in the matter, many others do.
Because so many people live together in what would be marriage and so many people have children without marriage or living together or become parents through remarriage, today we may have to think about someone who is NMNK as someone who believes living alone is the best way of life for them. People who live alone may perhaps be celibate by choice as well so we may actually live a more monastic by choice existence than ever before. For some of us living alone may be about pursuing a more spiritual way of life and for some that more spiritual way of life includes practicing ritual, mantra, meditation, or magic.
Happy Halloween to our "Witchy" sisters and brothers who are "SOLO."
Though witchcraft no doubt existed and exists, from what I've learned about the subject, it is often those who are or appear defenseless because they have no familial or husbandly protection that are easily singled out for abuse, harassment, and victimization.
Today people who do not marry and/or have no children are still thought of as odd, and while some of them perhaps have little choice in the matter, many others do.
Because so many people live together in what would be marriage and so many people have children without marriage or living together or become parents through remarriage, today we may have to think about someone who is NMNK as someone who believes living alone is the best way of life for them. People who live alone may perhaps be celibate by choice as well so we may actually live a more monastic by choice existence than ever before. For some of us living alone may be about pursuing a more spiritual way of life and for some that more spiritual way of life includes practicing ritual, mantra, meditation, or magic.
Happy Halloween to our "Witchy" sisters and brothers who are "SOLO."
10/25/08
HATEFUL ANNONYMOUS BLOGGER CLAIMS DR. LAURA HAS NEVER SAID ...
MARRIED PEOPLE OUGHT TO DUMP THEIR SINGLE FRIENDS...
Sister is really smelling the baby diapers here!
Sister recently received a very anonymous violently hateful comment which she REJECTED because of the fact that the person claimed to know Dr. Laura personally! (But of course wants to remain unknown like the coward he or she is.) This person went on, attacking me personally rather than my message or posing any INTELLIGENT COMMENTARY.
Shall we switch to open ID instead so that attacks can't come from just anywhere!?
It's OK if you don't agree with our stance here. If you can be respectful about it. But don't expect respect here if you don't earn it!
99.9 percent of the word is going to tell you you're abnormal if you don't BREED! Not feminine or masculine. Not a "real" man or "real" woman. So when Sister gets hate mail it is NOT SURPRISING.
I have read a few of Dr. Laura's books which is saying a lot since most people who are not her fans don't bother to get her drift by using their time to read her. I also have mutual friends through the radio business who suggest that a certain broadcaster who "helped" her career and wrote his own memoir/bio openly talks about how this Neo Conservative Dr. Laura opened her legs to him for her own career when she was young; something she would advise you never do. That's right. She slept around.
She stayed home and raised her child? Are you sure? Or is it that she worked part time ambitiously and was willing to sabotage at least one of her fellow female broadcasters in the process, greedy and hell bent to succeed at any cost?
And she really is NOT entitled to use the Dr. in front of her name, since in our society that means you became a doctor- physician or are a professor at a university and she has never practiced medicine or been a college level professor. Did she earn a PHD? Yes. But not in a subject that academically qualifies her for being a counselor. She has as much background in social work as a gypsy fortune teller!
Maybe Dr. Laura did not say "dump your friends who are single now that you are married as soon as you get off the phone with me" in those exact words. But she has told married people that they should be associating with other married couples - ie that they no longer have anything in common with their left behind single friends. And she has said things that give the impression that once married your single friends can only be bad influences that will lead you to cheat. And the day I heard this comment on the radio - which was some years ago - I WAS SO ANGRY I HAD TO TAKE A FIVE MILE WALK.
IT WAS THE SAME crapola so many of us who Wisely Chose NOT To Marry or Have Children have put up for eons... Those of us who are only acceptable in our families if all those who Did Marry and Live Their Lives Around Their Children and HATE IT, can dump the kids off on us for free babysitting and vacations... Somehow we are supposed to redeem our solitude and sanity by taking care of their kids and being an honorary auntie or uncle...
At any rate, I dare my readers to phone up Dr. Laura and flat out ask her what she thinks circa 2008 and report back to this blog. On your report you must state what station you heard the broadcast, what city, what time you called, what your question was to Dr. Laura and what her answer was.
Sister is really smelling the baby diapers here!
Sister recently received a very anonymous violently hateful comment which she REJECTED because of the fact that the person claimed to know Dr. Laura personally! (But of course wants to remain unknown like the coward he or she is.) This person went on, attacking me personally rather than my message or posing any INTELLIGENT COMMENTARY.
Shall we switch to open ID instead so that attacks can't come from just anywhere!?
It's OK if you don't agree with our stance here. If you can be respectful about it. But don't expect respect here if you don't earn it!
99.9 percent of the word is going to tell you you're abnormal if you don't BREED! Not feminine or masculine. Not a "real" man or "real" woman. So when Sister gets hate mail it is NOT SURPRISING.
I have read a few of Dr. Laura's books which is saying a lot since most people who are not her fans don't bother to get her drift by using their time to read her. I also have mutual friends through the radio business who suggest that a certain broadcaster who "helped" her career and wrote his own memoir/bio openly talks about how this Neo Conservative Dr. Laura opened her legs to him for her own career when she was young; something she would advise you never do. That's right. She slept around.
She stayed home and raised her child? Are you sure? Or is it that she worked part time ambitiously and was willing to sabotage at least one of her fellow female broadcasters in the process, greedy and hell bent to succeed at any cost?
And she really is NOT entitled to use the Dr. in front of her name, since in our society that means you became a doctor- physician or are a professor at a university and she has never practiced medicine or been a college level professor. Did she earn a PHD? Yes. But not in a subject that academically qualifies her for being a counselor. She has as much background in social work as a gypsy fortune teller!
Maybe Dr. Laura did not say "dump your friends who are single now that you are married as soon as you get off the phone with me" in those exact words. But she has told married people that they should be associating with other married couples - ie that they no longer have anything in common with their left behind single friends. And she has said things that give the impression that once married your single friends can only be bad influences that will lead you to cheat. And the day I heard this comment on the radio - which was some years ago - I WAS SO ANGRY I HAD TO TAKE A FIVE MILE WALK.
IT WAS THE SAME crapola so many of us who Wisely Chose NOT To Marry or Have Children have put up for eons... Those of us who are only acceptable in our families if all those who Did Marry and Live Their Lives Around Their Children and HATE IT, can dump the kids off on us for free babysitting and vacations... Somehow we are supposed to redeem our solitude and sanity by taking care of their kids and being an honorary auntie or uncle...
At any rate, I dare my readers to phone up Dr. Laura and flat out ask her what she thinks circa 2008 and report back to this blog. On your report you must state what station you heard the broadcast, what city, what time you called, what your question was to Dr. Laura and what her answer was.
10/21/08
NOKIDDING CLUB out of VANCOUVER CANADA
Here's the link to NOKIDDING, the club out of Vancouver Columbia that is there for you!
10/19/08
CHILDFREE BY CHOICE
"Do women who have fewer or no children live longer? A study of genealogical records kept by British aristocrats for 1,200 years shows that nearly half of all women who survived past 81 were childless. Similar results held for men. One explanation, says Thomas Kirkwood, a biologist at the University of Manchester, is that when the body commits more of its resources for reproduction, fewer might be available to support a long life."
--Discover Magazine,4/99 quoted above...
FRIENDS, rush over to see CHILDFREE BY CHOICE, by clicking on the title above!
Sister
--Discover Magazine,4/99 quoted above...
FRIENDS, rush over to see CHILDFREE BY CHOICE, by clicking on the title above!
Sister
10/6/08
BRIDE AND GROOM IN CALIFORNIA means NO SAME SEX MARRIAGE?
Click on the link above to get the latest news on the California same sex marriage issue. Who gets to be bride and who gets to be groom if this is same sex marriage. Are gay people male or female by GENDER?
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