70 YEAR OLD VIRGIN AND CABARET SINGER PAM SHAW THINKS SHE'D LIKE TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE

 70 YEAR OLD VIRGIN AND CABARET SINGER PAM SHAW THINKS SHE'D LIKE TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE

What a fun article and a fun lady! Pam Shaw has been busy with her sexy cabaret act but is (still) a virgin! Pam Shaw was always too busy with her cabaret singing career to find herself a man. And, as she is against sex before marriage, a casual fling was out of the question.It's all a world away from her onstage person as The Sexational Pam, with her daring outfits having turned many a head during her years on Britain's club circuit.But, as she told the Sun, she's not looking for just any old man. She said:'Now's the time. I'm ready to take the plunge for the right bloke. 'My standards are still very high, though. I'm hoping to bag a tall, dark and handsome millionaire..." 

HUFFINGTONPOST UK 70 YEAR OLD VIRGIN PAM SHAW

(First posted May 11, 2012)

HUMOR : HOW TO LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY : HUMOR

HUMOR : HOW TO LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY  
 I thought this was funny and I bet you will too...

I MEET A 71 YEAR OLD VIRGIN AT THE GROCER! (AND THE 22 YEAR OLD VIRGIN MASS MURDERER - UC SANTA BARBARA!)

 I MEET A 71 YEAR OLD VIRGIN AT THE GROCER!  (AND THE 22 YEAR OLD VIRGIN MASS MURDERER - UC SANTA BARBARA!)

She was one of several of us who were in the back of the grocer looking at discounted products.  We got to talking about the latest mass murderer (not serial killer) the 22 year old virgin who killed 6 and then himself, and left another dozen or so wounded in the town Isla Vista near UC Santa Barbara.  I said "SO WHAT HE WAS A 22 YEAR OLD VIRGIN! Used to be that just about everyone who wasn't married by 22 was a virgin.  Plenty of really intelligent people wait until they are old enough for responsibility to have sex!"

She blurted "Well, I'm a 71 year old virgin!"

I said, " CONGRATULATIONS!"

She said "I never married because I was always someone's CAREGIVER!  Now that I'm retired my income is too low to go out and meet people."

I suggested a senior center in the next town that has some good inexpensive trips for 55 and over.

YOU KNOW SOMETIMES PEOPLE JUST FEEL LIKE SHARING WITH FRIENDLY STRANGERS!

By the way, she looked 10 years younger at least.  This is something I've observed in the NMNK.  Many look much younger than they are.  Having and raising children, especially if you also work full time, is stressful and aging.

I supposed we will have to include the 22 year old virgin mass murderer as NMNK!

(First posed on  June 7, 2014)

CELIBACY (EVEN WHEN MARRIED) IS THE NEW SEXY IN JAPAN! (YOU CAN EVEN STAY A VIRGIN!)

This morning while getting ready I listened to some local morning programing and heard a snippet about how in Japan even some married people are not having sex.  There is a high percentage of male Japanese who are married and still virgins! 

This article is terrific and discusses how prevalent porn is in Japanese culture.

http://www.japantoday.com/category/opinions/view/why-arent-japanese-dating-and-mating  LOVED THE WRITING ON THIS OPINION PIECE by Hollie Mantle.

EXCERPT: "The story of Japan’s declining birthrate is not a new one. Measures are underway to ensure that the country does not evolve into a giant nursing home. But in spite of the fact that the government is offering monetary incentives to young married couples, and that businesses are enforcing compulsory holidays, the percentage of children being born into the new generation is not increasing rapidly enough. With just an average of 1.39 children born per Japanese female, it’s time to take a look at the root causes of why such a randy bunch of Asians can’t get down and do it...The pressure to get married is a predominant conversation topic for females as young as 14. The idea of women as “Christmas cakes”—an item which begins to decline after its use-by date of the 25th—still pervades, and the desperation to get married before this “spoiling age” is visibly apparent in Japanese social circles.

Here's one that says millions of young Japanese people are not even dating and focuses on the reality of corporate careers and the economics of raising children.
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/oct/20/young-people-japan-stopped-having-sex   by Abigail Haworth

EXCERPT: The number of single people has reached a record high. A survey in 2011 found that 61%of unmarried men and 49% of women aged 18-34 were not in any kind of romantic relationship, a rise of almost 10% from five years earlier. Another study found that a third of people under 30 had never dated at all. (There are no figures for same-sex relationships.) Although there has long been a pragmatic separation of love and sex in Japan – a country mostly free of religious morals – sex fares no better. A survey earlier this year by the Japan Family Planning Association (JFPA) found that 45% of women aged 16-24 "were not interested in or despised sexual contact". More than a quarter of men felt the same way.

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MY OPINION ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY IS THAT IT HAS A NEGATIVE EFFECT OVERALL.
I think some people watch it hoping that they can get excited or so they can figure out what, if anything, does get them excited. But there is a disconnect emotionally watching a couple of actors who don't love each other having sex on film and I don't think you learn too much from watching it that will be useful having a relationship with another human being, hopefully with love.

CELIBRATE CELIBACY! UNITED KINGDOM

HERE IS AN ORGANIZATION IN THE UNITED KINGDOM that has a great newsletter-like site that reports on subjects that interest YOU like old women who are life-long virgins!


"Virginity demonstrates the basic preciousness of one's integrity - a spiritual specialness which one wishes to only give to one of the opposite sex with whom they are prepared to share everything for life" - Keith Sanders, UK

VIRGINITY - A YOUTUBER SPEAKS HIS MIND

MIDLIFE - NEVER BEEN KISSED - VIRGIN - SUSAN BOYLE THE HIT OF BRITIAN AND THE WORLD

Not the last to hear about this are you? click on the title to get to her new web site... and listen to her again! (Years of parental care kept Susan from pursuing her dream!)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PPlkOyaqaQ (The embedding has been disabled so click here!)

DEFINING VIRGIN - An Excerpt from BOOK OF SHADOWS by PHYLLIS CUROTT about VIRGINITY

PHYLLIS CUROTT's BOOK OF SHADOWS, quoting "Maia" page 184

"Virgin actually meant a woman unto herself, not a woman who had never had sex. It meant a woman who was self-defined, to defined by her relationship to a man. Even Aphrodite, a goddess of love, was virginal - each year she bathed in the waters by her temple in Cyprus to cleanse herself of the influence of men and restore her autonomy."

Found this book on the shelf at the library. It's circa 1998 and Phyllis Currott is a self proclaimed a Wiccan High Priestess.