8/27/09
EXPERIENCE PROJECT has NEVER MARRIED NO CHILDREN BOARD
AND SO FAR NO ONE HAS CONTRIBUTED THEIR STORY....
8/21/09
PSYCHSOCIAL CHARACERISTICS OF THE NEVER MARRIED
According to this article, we face economic insecurity in old age and a lack of sex partners.
8/15/09
SUSAN BOYLE GETS THAT MAKEOVER!
Jennifer Romolini, on the Tuesday August 4, 2009 staff of SHINE - Yahoo, reports that SUSAN BOYLE (one of us!) just got a makeover. We linked to the Youtube video of her singing performance in Britain, and Susan was saying she would not be up for a makeover, but well, you click on the title and see what you think!
Peter where are YOU?
Peter where are YOU?
MORMON CHURCH TARGETED AT KISSING BASH by GAY MEN
Click on the link above to get to the Yahoo news article about the Gay Activists who are having a kissing bash to get back at the Mormon - Latter Day Saints Church - for their activism to keep gays from marriage.
Now I know you want my opinion. The other day some guy was joking with me and said "YOU ARE GOING TO MARRY ME, AREN'T YOU?"
I said, "NO WAY, you know the only ones who want to get married these days are gay men!"
YES, I AM FOR GAY MARRIAGE, and YES, I DO THINK IT WILL LEAD TO OTHER FORMS OF MARRIAGE LIKE OLD FASHIONED POLYGAMY BEING LEGAL AGAIN!
The fact is MARITAL STATUS SHOULD NOT BE NECESSARY TO HAVE DISCOUNTS IN LIFE ! SINGLE PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS PAYING MORE TO TRAVEL, FOR FOOD, and two people who are married and who cohabitate legally get HEALTH INSURANCE for far less than two single people who cohabitant as roommates, MARRIAGE HAS FINANCIAL and LEGAL BENEFITS and that is what it's often about - not love!
Sister
Now I know you want my opinion. The other day some guy was joking with me and said "YOU ARE GOING TO MARRY ME, AREN'T YOU?"
I said, "NO WAY, you know the only ones who want to get married these days are gay men!"
YES, I AM FOR GAY MARRIAGE, and YES, I DO THINK IT WILL LEAD TO OTHER FORMS OF MARRIAGE LIKE OLD FASHIONED POLYGAMY BEING LEGAL AGAIN!
The fact is MARITAL STATUS SHOULD NOT BE NECESSARY TO HAVE DISCOUNTS IN LIFE ! SINGLE PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS PAYING MORE TO TRAVEL, FOR FOOD, and two people who are married and who cohabitate legally get HEALTH INSURANCE for far less than two single people who cohabitant as roommates, MARRIAGE HAS FINANCIAL and LEGAL BENEFITS and that is what it's often about - not love!
Sister
8/8/09
NO CHILDREN MEANS CONTRACEPTION, ABORTION, CELIBACY, ADOPTION, OR LUCK
If you don't want children, then you usually don't have the luck to be naturally infertile. Instead, you have to use contraception, be willing to have an abortion - or be willing to bear a child and give it up for adoption.
You're always hearing about people who are "trying" to get pregnant. It's really no one's business, but couples today like to tell you anyway that they are or were "trying." Making love to each other seems to have turned into "trying!" (Yeesh!) But with the cost of raising children today, requiring two incomes almost always (this is not necessarily a feminist move), MORE PEOPLE ARE TRYING NOT TO GET PREGNANT THAN EVER!
BUT THE POINT OF THIS POST IS TO ASSURE YOU, that you CAN BE A NMNK having become a biological mother or father and given up the child for adoption. And we are NOT holding that against you!
You're always hearing about people who are "trying" to get pregnant. It's really no one's business, but couples today like to tell you anyway that they are or were "trying." Making love to each other seems to have turned into "trying!" (Yeesh!) But with the cost of raising children today, requiring two incomes almost always (this is not necessarily a feminist move), MORE PEOPLE ARE TRYING NOT TO GET PREGNANT THAN EVER!
BUT THE POINT OF THIS POST IS TO ASSURE YOU, that you CAN BE A NMNK having become a biological mother or father and given up the child for adoption. And we are NOT holding that against you!
7/31/09
ARE YOU BLACK SHEEP OF YOUR FAMILY ?
ARE YOU THE BLACK SHEEP OF YOUR FAMILY?
Recently I learned that psychologists often view the person who is the Black Sheep in the family to be the healthiest person in it.
Often the Blacksheep is the person who admits there is a problem and that means others have to change. Though sometimes it's just a matter of being "different" as in the one who hasn't married and had children.
In a dysfunctional relationship (be that the family of origin or the "family at work) people are somehow assigned or grow into their roles and even if they're sick roles and they get used to being in them. The Black Sheep on the other hand, wants change.
When the Black Sheep wants change, the others who don't want change or who are afraid to change may be mightly compelling in their behavior to keep the status quo, even if the status quo is sick.
They may kick the Black Sheep out of the family or fire them at the office, BLAME THEM entirely for the problem, or be exceptionally critical and judgemental against them. By abandoning or isolating a family member, as in the case of shunning, that person's overall situation is weak. They will no longer have the benefits of being a member of the so called "building block" of society - the family!
If they love their family (or need their job), and many do despite everything, they may go back and agree to their old role, rather than not have any connection at all.
ARE YOU THE BLACK SHEEP OF YOUR FAMILY?
Sister
Recently I learned that psychologists often view the person who is the Black Sheep in the family to be the healthiest person in it.
Often the Blacksheep is the person who admits there is a problem and that means others have to change. Though sometimes it's just a matter of being "different" as in the one who hasn't married and had children.
In a dysfunctional relationship (be that the family of origin or the "family at work) people are somehow assigned or grow into their roles and even if they're sick roles and they get used to being in them. The Black Sheep on the other hand, wants change.
When the Black Sheep wants change, the others who don't want change or who are afraid to change may be mightly compelling in their behavior to keep the status quo, even if the status quo is sick.
They may kick the Black Sheep out of the family or fire them at the office, BLAME THEM entirely for the problem, or be exceptionally critical and judgemental against them. By abandoning or isolating a family member, as in the case of shunning, that person's overall situation is weak. They will no longer have the benefits of being a member of the so called "building block" of society - the family!
If they love their family (or need their job), and many do despite everything, they may go back and agree to their old role, rather than not have any connection at all.
ARE YOU THE BLACK SHEEP OF YOUR FAMILY?
Sister
7/15/09
S is for SINGLE !
Be proud to be SINGLE with no sense of SHAME !
Keep a crummy marriage? Now that's INSANE!
7/12/09
PICK YOUR VIRTUES !
VIRTUES we can all aspire to!
This is a comprehensive list but if YOU can think of more virtues, by all means tell me !
WHICH OF THESE VIRTUES DO YOU VALUE THE MOST?
Which are you REALLY BAD AT?
Which are you REALLY BAD AT?
EMPATHY, HELPFULNESS, FAIRNESS, TOLERANCE, CARING, COURAGE, HUMOR, RESPECT, LOYALTY, COURTESY, PATIENCE, RESOURCEFULNESS, PEACEMAKING, SELF-RELIANCE, SELF MOTIVATION, RESPONSIBILITY, HONESTY, TRUSTWORTHINESS, SELF DISCIPLINE, COOPERATION
EMPATHIE, UTILITÉ, EQUITABILITÉ, TOLÉRANCE, S'INQUIÉTANT, COURAGE, HUMOUR, RESPECT, FIDÉLITÉ, COURTOISIE, LA PATIENCE, RESSOURCE, RÉTABLISSEMENT DE LA PAIX, INDÉPENDANCE, MOTIVATION D'INDIVIDU, RESPONSABILITÉ, HONNÊTETÉ, FIDÉLITÉ, AUTODISCIPLINE, COOPÉRATION
7/10/09
HEY THERE LONELY GIRL (This one's for Peter) EDDIE HOLMAN
SORRY NEVER BEEN KISSED but I couldn't resist! Sister
P.S. Can you imagine the teasing Eddie Holman took growing up with this voice? And what a wonderful voice it is!
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