Showing posts with label sexual abstinence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual abstinence. Show all posts

11/5/14

IS SEX ONLY FOR THE RICH? and CELIBACY ISN'T THE SAME AS SEXUAL ABSTINENCE

WASHINGTON POST - CELIBATE IS NOT NECESSARILY ABSTRACT CONCEPT

WASHINGTON POST - Catherine Rampell - SEX ONLY FOR THE RICH?

EXCERPT:

Our country apparently doesn’t want low-income Americans to have free access to birth control, either by compelling all insurance plans to offer it or by adequately funding public reproductive health programs. In many schools — predominantly located in low-income, high-teen-pregnancy areas — we don’t even teach kids how contraception works. We also don’t want them to have easy access to abortions when they inevitably get pregnant because they’re not using birth control, with states such as Texas and Mississippi trying to shutter their few remaining abortion clinics.

Then we don’t help them very much after they birth those unplanned kids, instead publicly chastising irresponsible single mothers for having babies they can’t afford and offering little assistance in the form of child care, education or cash. Dumping unwanted children onto the child welfare system isn’t exactly celebrated, either...

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SISTER HERE:

I guess it depends where you live, but where I live there are plenty of free and low cost opportunities for contraception as well as abortion.  And while I certainly think schools should be teaching more about sex than when I was a girl and it was limited to film and discussion lead by a mother/nurse about having periods and the mysterious unification of egg and sperm, I STILL THINK IT IS UP TO PARENTS TO EDUCATE THEIR CHILDREN IN NOT ONLY THE FACTS OF LIFE, but also the ethics and morals that they believe in.  Sure the children will rebel, but if you teach children about personal and social responsibility, there's a chance they will THINK before they act.





1/12/11

IS SEX OVER RATED?

Do you find sex to be boring or uninteresting or simply overrated?

4/8/09

INVOLUNTARY CELIBACY - NOT YOUR FAULT?

Are you an Involuntary Celibate? This term means that through no fault of your own you cannot have the sexual and/or romantic relationship you would want. This can be due to a lack of opportunity or as a condition of your physicality. For instance, many older people are celibate involunatarily, and when they Didn't Use It They Lost It! The term DOES NOT MEAN YOU NEVER were sexual, just that for now you are not.

ANYONE WANT TO CONFESS?

2/25/08

WHAT DO CELIBATES DO ? HE WANTED TO KNOW...

Someone recently asked me what celibates "do" sexually. The term used to mean a person who avoids sexuality, including self pleasure and fantasy. A person who would not or could not be stirred. As science gets more sophisticated we realize that medically some people have low sex drives and some have high - maybe some people have none. Let's say it's rare to get through a whole life without experiencing the body and the body contains desire, expressed or not.

I usually say that a celibate person is someone who has natural drives but who CHOOSES not to act upon it.


WHAT WOULD YOU SAY?