MAY 2021
I guess all concerned are married now so this is a VINTAGE ARTICLE!
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Chelsy Davy is NMNK.Chelsy Davy is one of US!
Damn if she wasn't the target of some speculative "news" reportage as she attended the recent royal wedding of long time bachelor Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, the American actress who is giving it all up - willingly - including her acting career, her religion, her U.S. citizenship, and her NK status, to be the wife of this royal.
Rumors were that Chelsy was shocked to not be invited to the wedding receptions. What went on there - toasts to Harry remarking on his wild times - his women - might have been insulting to her. (Were they pointed at her?)
But Chesy was invited to the Wedding itself.
There is she was, along with so many family members, close personal friends, and celebrities - who were invited to one or both of the receptions.
I tried to understand. Was this meant to include her or to rub salt into wounds?
Chelsy Davy was once in a very long term relationship with Prince Harry.
Neither were married. It was not suggested that this educated woman with a lawyering background and who is now a jewelry designer, was ever Harry's Mistress. But OK, a half century ago she might have been assumed to just that. Let's be clear: it was like she was Harry's first wife, but since they never married they did not divorce. In fact, they became friends.
As I see it FRIENDSHIP IS VALUABLE. When someone is a good friend to you, you don't just throw them away.
Rumor has it that her invitation came but so did a "last phone call" from Harry saying - have a nice life - to her, ending the friendship. If so, you know what? That stinks!
Have YOU been dumped by a friend - male or female - that you once dated or were once involved with - because they got married?
What? Your friend will be too busy f*cking to remember to call you on your birthday or get together with you once in a while for coffee and not include you when they have a party?
Your friend will not introduce you to someone else you might want to date?
If so, you know what? That's really shitty!
Granted Harry and Meghan are going to be two of the busiest people in the world. They will tour the British Commonwealth and be Good Will Ambassadors, they have their charity work, and they are busy f*cking to start a family ASAP, since the Bride is ancient at 36 to start a family. (I will not be surprised to learn that fertility treatments have begun, just as I suspect Charlene, Prince Albert II's wife had them.) Meghan is as qualified to fry it up a pan and make him feel like a man as any careerist woman, I suppose, but what happens if the two of them prove to be unable to have children naturally?
Chelsy was fine about the wedding. Supposedly after this call she cried her eyes out, got it together, arrived with a smile on her face, like she was out for a good time, with her extra (called a plus one in Britain), a brother. But then her face was invaded by photographers and video cameras and she actually appeared disturbed, like she was holding back tears. These photos supposedly revealed what was going on in her mind. Such as thinking "it could have been ME!"
Actually I doubt that's what she was thinking. When a person who has been a good friend for years, and who had a difficult time finding someone who would marry him finds that person, it's emotional for you when you think they finally found happiness. Chelsy had years to accept that she and Harry would never marry. As his close friend and confidant I'm sure that he did talk to her about other women he dated. I read that Meghan gave her a warm hug. Meghan is confident in her position and does not seem to be putting in a big objection to Harry having women friends.
Maybe Chelsy was feeling invaded and maybe Chelsy was thinking it was shitty to set her apart and not invite her to the reception. After all, when Harry was depressed or in trouble because he once again did a Big Blooper, and he was infamous for them, did he actually call Oprah Winfrey? Why was she there?
I have no idea if, at 32, Chelsy desires marriage to anyone or motherhood, but consider that she may not. It's possible that her almost wifely status in Prince Harry's life intimidated other men from dating her. They are like that about royals in Britain. They don't want to effect their own status by even accidently tripping on Princely turf. But consider the husband of Camilla Parker Bowles who had a "take my wife, please!" attitude when Prince Charles took interest in her. Consider another favorite over in Britain, the recently and finally wed Pippa Middleton. who gave in to the man who had long loved her and wanted her, so married him and became pregnant almost immediately. Consider the uninterested in marriage James Middleton. Consider the long term relationship Princess Beatrice who is NMNK but also dated someone for years who broke with her and married someone else was in.
Aging in Place. Aging with Grace!
It is my hope the reportage was "rubbish" and Prince Harry will call Chelsy on birthdays, meet to have coffee, invite her to parties, and introduce her to his friends, rather than snub a very nice and fun young woman who was important in his life for many years.
CHELSY is OK NMNK!
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