Though JENNIFER ANISTON, the actress, does not qualify as NMNK since she has been married twice, she has gone through hell as a woman who has never had children, and for that I can relate. Though the years her childlessness has been used against her, not only in attacks on her character (when she has conducted herself as a lady throughout!), but as the reason hunky BRAD PITT left her for the snarky ANGELINA JOLIE, or as the excuse for cheating on her. (Jolie had done her first adoption before the two met.) IT HAS BEEN ASSUMED THAT PITT's DESIRE FOR CHILDREN and ANISTON's RELUCTANCE (blamed on selfishly wanting her career as an actress more) or INABILITY, made her defective. TABLOIDS have had a go on all of them for years, and now all those children are being dragged through a divorce and the question of who has custody, who gets to visit, how often, and when.
ANISTON seems to have left town for New York to be out of the way as much as possible through this latest divorce with children debacle, and I'm feeling sorry for BRAD, who probably has gotten angry with a spoiled brat child and lost his temper at least once.
(FRIENDS OF MINE WHOSE PARENTS WERE VERBALLY ABUSIVE TELL ME THAT WHEN THEY HAD CHILDREN THEY FORGAVE THEIR PARENTS AND UNDERSTOOD WHAT IT IS TO HAVE A CHILD YOU WORK YOUR TAIL OFF TO SUPPORT BEING A SASSY ASS OF A KID!)
With the vast wealth of both JOLIE and PITT, there is really no reason why their children need to be seen out in public, looking depressed, as all this goes on. And if the couple were not world famous, it is unlikely the FBI, which has better things to do, like work against terrorist cells in the United States, would spend five minutes interrogating the apparently blind sided Pitt, who no doubt is probably SICK over the prospect of being separated at all from his brood.
I FULLY EXPECT, in the future, that all six children will write TELL ALL BOOKS ABOUT THEIR PARENTS, and how hard it was to grow up as they have.
It's not fair, what do I know? I think the children should live with BRAD!
JOLIE IS WRONG that children do not need structure or discipline. Discipline is possible without ABUSE. I know this because I know of people who have well behaved and respectful children who have never been verbally or physically or otherwise abused. AND IF I HAD CHILDREN, those are the CHILDREN mine would be allowed to play with!
Let me focus though on JENNIFER ANISTON. Here is a beautiful and accomplished woman who has worked hard to have and keep a career, and she has had so much projected on her. The day the news of the pending divorce came out, speculation became gossip became "truth" as she supposedly said, to an unnamed "friend," that Brad was getting his KARMA. I suspect she has long ago moved on and into her new marriage and doesn't much have Brad on her mind at all. Additionally, the poor woman cannot gain a pound and the pregnancy speculation begins...
IT WILL BE OK IF JENNIFER ANISTON DOES NOT HAVE CHILDREN, NOT ONE, NOT EVER!
ABC NEWS ENTERTAINMENT ANISTON AND KIDS
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