The other night I told a friend of mine that I'd been thinking of a writing a list of questions which I could hand out to anyone who thinks they want to have a relationship with me. I mean men, who if they answer enough questions right could be friends with me or if they answered ALL the questions right, could actually have a Relationship with me, or at least start one. The reason for this is that suddenly I've attracted three potential Relationships with men I've met in recent months. I see how easy it is for having flowing conversations, a few laughs, or a good time, can make people skip over all the important issues, and become too involved, and then break up anyway.
WHO NEEDS THAT?
I decided the list of questions would be, not tricky, but the reader would not necessarily know where I was coming from so they couldn't guess what answers I hoped for. I would warn them to be honest since they had no idea.
The inspiration for this idea was a recent article that explained why everything you like or love about a person WILL BE ON YOUR NERVES in two years. Well, what happens is that the characteristic you liked or loved seems exaggerated at that point. He was neat. Now he's excessively neat and on your back about dishes in the sink. You loved her long hair. Now you go crazy waiting the two hours it takes for her to shampoo, condition, set, and comb out before you go out. Etc.
So I'm not going to tell you all the questions on my list. I'm going to tell you ONE and encourage you to make your own list, if you think that you'll have the courage to actually present it upon someone new in your life.
1) WHAT DO YOU THINK OF LAS VEGAS?
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