I was so provoked to say a few things to these young women about men and dating that they might not want to hear. I said nothing but left as soon as I finished my meal!
They were unhappy with dating. Why do it? No one HAS to date! If it's to meet someone to marry, perhaps they should ask their parents, older sisters, or someone that they respect to ARRANGE their marriages!
They were unhappy with men. It could be the men they are meeting and not all men on this earth, but OK, let's say all men are basically defective. Then try women.
Men had treated them all badly in some way. That's terrible but has it turned any of them into feminists? Hopefully they all know that when a person treats another person without respect it's time to end the relationship before it turns into SINGLE MOTHERHOOD with NO SUPPORT!
I wanted to know:
If they ever do the asking out and if so do they make the plan and pay?
If any one of them has discovered a pattern such as being dumped or being the dumped, or being the one who asks the other person out and being the one who leaves the relationship.
SUMMER IS HERE. DON'T RUIN YOUR SUMMER OVER DATING! Get out there, have fun, make friends, and maybe you'll also have a romance. No one will come knocking on your door uninvited!
C 2014