6/29/09
A WHOLE HELL OF A LOT ABOUT HERMITS ! OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS !
Click on the link above to get to HERMITARY.COM ! Really!
6/26/09
REMEMBER MICHEAL JACKSON and THE JESUS JUICE
Remember Micheal Jackson and the "Jesus Juice," the wine he was having kids drink to warm them up for being silly about wearing their underpants and sleeping with him - a grown man - a stranger - in his bed? My blood is boiling at the way this creep is going down in history as a great entertainer and humanitarian.
Just because this blog is NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS, just because I don't have kids and never wanted any doesn't mean that I hate kids. I think kids deserve a whole lot more than they are getting. And that includes protection from opportunistic parents who would actually allow their child to spend time with a rich never married singer-celebrity simply because he is a rich never married singer-celebrity. Irresponsibly allowing their children to be exposed to this - especially after the first trial and strong rumors of payoffs prior to that - just for the goodies, is greedy and sick.
One friend said "Well, he's meeting his maker now." I wish I could be so religious. I'm not. And I don't think the spectacle of eternal damnation excuses us as a society for putting the emphasis on popularity instead of values!
Sister
Just because this blog is NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS, just because I don't have kids and never wanted any doesn't mean that I hate kids. I think kids deserve a whole lot more than they are getting. And that includes protection from opportunistic parents who would actually allow their child to spend time with a rich never married singer-celebrity simply because he is a rich never married singer-celebrity. Irresponsibly allowing their children to be exposed to this - especially after the first trial and strong rumors of payoffs prior to that - just for the goodies, is greedy and sick.
One friend said "Well, he's meeting his maker now." I wish I could be so religious. I'm not. And I don't think the spectacle of eternal damnation excuses us as a society for putting the emphasis on popularity instead of values!
Sister
6/20/09
ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN is actually ACT LIKE A WHORE, THINK LIKE STEVE HARVEY
Review by Sister C 2009 All Rights including Internet Rights and International Rights Reserved
The #1 New York Times Bestseller ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN, is comedian Steve Harvey's opus on the so called war between the sexes. BAD NEWS ! Really the title should be ACT LIKE A WHORE, THINK LIKE STEVE HARVEY !...
What is this shi* doing on the New York Times Best Seller list? Is the American public, women in particular, this INSECURE that we need another "expert" to tell us how to get and keep men?
No, he's not being funny, he's serious when he says that a man needs COOKIE (read NOOKIE) and if he has to wait a whole month or more to get it from you HE IS GOING TO CHEAT. Who wants or needs men in our personal lives like that? NOT ME!
MEN ARE NOT ALL LIKE THIS. The biology as destiny argument is worthless!
MEN WORTH HAVING IN YOUR LIFE ARE NOT LIKE THIS.
Mature men, who are not ego buffed by celebrity and groupies hanging off their *ocks, know that TRUE INTIMACY and REAL COMMITMENT are not dependent on sexual functioning. Yes, people go through pregnancies, illnesses, loose their libidos or their ability to get it up. Men worth having aren't demanding sex from their women who are undergoing radiation and chemotherapy for breast cancer, for instance.
STEVE HARVEY seems stuck in adolescence to me!
IF WOMEN TURNED THE TABLES ON SUCH MEN and SAID "If you don't give me orgasms I'm out of here," there would be very few families and there probably wouldn't even be a population problem!
MEN LIKE STEVE HARVEY NEED TO BE INTRODUCED TO THEIR HANDS rather than WASTE THE TIME (and the LOVE) of women! They are NOT gentleman, and gentleman, by the way, ARE the ones who PROVIDE and PROTECT.
The #1 New York Times Bestseller ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN, is comedian Steve Harvey's opus on the so called war between the sexes. BAD NEWS ! Really the title should be ACT LIKE A WHORE, THINK LIKE STEVE HARVEY !...
What is this shi* doing on the New York Times Best Seller list? Is the American public, women in particular, this INSECURE that we need another "expert" to tell us how to get and keep men?
No, he's not being funny, he's serious when he says that a man needs COOKIE (read NOOKIE) and if he has to wait a whole month or more to get it from you HE IS GOING TO CHEAT. Who wants or needs men in our personal lives like that? NOT ME!
MEN ARE NOT ALL LIKE THIS. The biology as destiny argument is worthless!
MEN WORTH HAVING IN YOUR LIFE ARE NOT LIKE THIS.
Mature men, who are not ego buffed by celebrity and groupies hanging off their *ocks, know that TRUE INTIMACY and REAL COMMITMENT are not dependent on sexual functioning. Yes, people go through pregnancies, illnesses, loose their libidos or their ability to get it up. Men worth having aren't demanding sex from their women who are undergoing radiation and chemotherapy for breast cancer, for instance.
STEVE HARVEY seems stuck in adolescence to me!
IF WOMEN TURNED THE TABLES ON SUCH MEN and SAID "If you don't give me orgasms I'm out of here," there would be very few families and there probably wouldn't even be a population problem!
MEN LIKE STEVE HARVEY NEED TO BE INTRODUCED TO THEIR HANDS rather than WASTE THE TIME (and the LOVE) of women! They are NOT gentleman, and gentleman, by the way, ARE the ones who PROVIDE and PROTECT.
6/19/09
NO DIVORCE NO HEARTBREAK ?
No Divorce No Heartbreak?
By Sister
Do some others assume that because you've never married and divorced (or lived with someone spouse-like and split up) that you are - well, not experienced with heartbreak? This blog understands that being NMNK is often a choice but sometimes it's just the way your life went despite your best efforts. WHATEVER, now that you fit in our CATEGORY, you are subject to the sam BS the rest of us are experiencing. Maybe you tried to join the ranks of the married and never got there. I dare say that some of you may be NMNK because of a heartbreak that occurred at some time in your life and you've never really gotten over him or her.
This blog is NOT about being unloving or unloved, however. I simply propose that for some of us creating "family" has much more to do with choice - having a family of friends. Some of us are truly "loners" but others of us have lives full of people. We don't need as much as some others or we get our need for companionship and socialization from people we are not married to or creating families with.
People often ask me invasive personal questions - even in public with other strangers around - wanting to know the details of my love life, sex life - present or past - and it always pisses me off. In fact, I've distanced myself from more than one person - male persons in particular - who have put me on the spot "just wanting to know."
The truth is, your personal life is personal unless you don't want it to be. You don'tOWE anyone any explanations for why you are the way you are - single and childless - and it used to be that such questions were UNDERSTOOD to be THE HEIGHT OF RUDENESS. I wish I had a standard answer to shut these rude questioners up but I seem to feel the eyes upon me expecting me to make a pronouncement. But when I do, I suspect that they are wondering if I'm just a great actress.
What kind of retorts have YOU made when someone tries to disarm you or make your lifestyle suspect?-
Sister
C 2009 all rights reserved, including Internation and Internet
6/14/09
MORE WOMEN 40-44 remaining CHILDLESS
Here's a 2008 U.S. Today article on the stats of childless women in their early 40's. Let's face it. Just because it's news that some wealthy actress has gone ahead and adopted a child or had a child later in the usual fertility range without a husband doesn't mean anyone without wealth should follow in her footsteps. Do you really have the right to expect family and friends to compensate for your inability to provide child care? When you work a regular job or have a career you have little to no time for also raising children.
6/10/09
6/5/09
JACQUELINE BISSIT HAS NO REGRET
"I don't regret not having children. "I am very much at peace with that. Perhaps I do have that occasional twinge, but you can't do everything."
-Jacqueline Bisset
-Jacqueline Bisset
6/2/09
ABORTION IN DEMAND as UNITED STATES ECONOMY COLLAPSES
Reading in the news lately, Planned Parenthood and other clinics that provide contraception and abortion health services are getting a huge number of calls as women who used to have private health insurance require exams and contraception or turn to abortion because they can't imagine being able to afford a child.
To me this news is also about the economic aspect of having children which takes maturity and sophistication to understand and accept. While the economic crisis continues to put pressure on us, many women (and men) are coming to grips with the fact that bearing and raising a child to maturity is expensive.
No, Sister here is not for any government enforcement of the use of contraception or abortion as they do in c Communist China! However, more people I talk to are are getting irate about the fact that they feel overtaxed to support and raise the children of people who have as many children as God sends them while they can't afford their own.
In truth, if the only people who had children were the ones who would be guaranteed to want them, love them, and be able to afford them the population of the earth would plummet.
Sister
To me this news is also about the economic aspect of having children which takes maturity and sophistication to understand and accept. While the economic crisis continues to put pressure on us, many women (and men) are coming to grips with the fact that bearing and raising a child to maturity is expensive.
No, Sister here is not for any government enforcement of the use of contraception or abortion as they do in c Communist China! However, more people I talk to are are getting irate about the fact that they feel overtaxed to support and raise the children of people who have as many children as God sends them while they can't afford their own.
In truth, if the only people who had children were the ones who would be guaranteed to want them, love them, and be able to afford them the population of the earth would plummet.
Sister
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