Here's a blog in which various contributors are on the watch for sexism in our culture...
You're about to find some people who are not oriented towards marriage or children here...
5/30/09
5/25/09
What we think of OCTOMOM
Yeeeeesh! Now, before Sister here gets to spitting, Ocotmom is not entirely at fault here for having so many children in one pregnancy. You see, when a person is treated with fertility drugs or implanted with embryos, it is common to become pregnant with more than one (1) fetus. Usually only one or two survive. IN THIS CASE IT SEEMS EVERY ONE OF THEM SURVIVED !
SECONDLY, let's blame the doctor. WAS HE OUT OF HIS MIND? What about his moral obligation to see into a few facts about Octomom's life, such as the fact that this woman already had children and apparently was struggling to support the ones she already had because - ah - typical - no father(s) in the household!
OK, I truly hope these children were "in" on coming to this earth in such strange circumstances. As is, they are liable to be media darlings for some time... May they not be deprived of a single thing they need...
SECONDLY, let's blame the doctor. WAS HE OUT OF HIS MIND? What about his moral obligation to see into a few facts about Octomom's life, such as the fact that this woman already had children and apparently was struggling to support the ones she already had because - ah - typical - no father(s) in the household!
OK, I truly hope these children were "in" on coming to this earth in such strange circumstances. As is, they are liable to be media darlings for some time... May they not be deprived of a single thing they need...
5/21/09
ARE YOU AN OBJECT OF PITY AND CONTEMPT ?
OK.... I'm NOT going to tell you your personal perceptions are all off... HOWEVER, it is time for you - if you have been made to feel this way - to STOP INTERNALIZING OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS OF YOU!
THERE IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU ARE A NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS person !
Here are some things some people might consider being ashamed of:
Not using contraception when they damn well know they are not "ready" for a child or their sex partner(s) are "not ready!"
Having children they do not want and abusing them - taking it out on the kid.
Going after their friends' boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife rather than going to getting their own!
Keeping relationships going that are going NOWHERE because they don't want to be single!
Going around with the attitude that ANY marriage would be better than NO marriage (i.e. thinking it's better to tell people later that you are divorced rather than NEVER MARRIED!)
I'm SURE you can come up with other despicable things people do in order to NOT be NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS!
SISTER
THERE IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU ARE A NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS person !
Here are some things some people might consider being ashamed of:
Not using contraception when they damn well know they are not "ready" for a child or their sex partner(s) are "not ready!"
Having children they do not want and abusing them - taking it out on the kid.
Going after their friends' boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife rather than going to getting their own!
Keeping relationships going that are going NOWHERE because they don't want to be single!
Going around with the attitude that ANY marriage would be better than NO marriage (i.e. thinking it's better to tell people later that you are divorced rather than NEVER MARRIED!)
I'm SURE you can come up with other despicable things people do in order to NOT be NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS!
SISTER
5/18/09
GRANDMOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO OWN GRANDSON
Click on the link above to get to one of many news stories today about the oldest woman in the UK to give birth, age 66, pregnant with a son a month before her 67th birthday. The British woman could not get fertility treatments in the UK so she went out of the country.
OK. Personally, I think this is SELFISH, but how selfish? I believe if you're going to have children you ought to do so with a reasonable belief that you will live to see your child to adulthood. BUT BEING AN ORPHAN used to be VERY COMMON!
MEN THIS AGE HAVE BEEN HAVING CHILDREN (with younger, fertile, women) for ages. THEY DON'T GET ATTACKED LIKE THIS ! (And because I am all for CHOICE, I can't imagine making sterilization or abortion mandatory!)
Secondly, today, because of so many irresponsible PARENTS, lots of GRANDPARENTS are raising their grandchildren.
What this article SHOULD SAY is GRANDMOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO OWN GRANDSON!
YOUR COMMENTS?
OK. Personally, I think this is SELFISH, but how selfish? I believe if you're going to have children you ought to do so with a reasonable belief that you will live to see your child to adulthood. BUT BEING AN ORPHAN used to be VERY COMMON!
MEN THIS AGE HAVE BEEN HAVING CHILDREN (with younger, fertile, women) for ages. THEY DON'T GET ATTACKED LIKE THIS ! (And because I am all for CHOICE, I can't imagine making sterilization or abortion mandatory!)
Secondly, today, because of so many irresponsible PARENTS, lots of GRANDPARENTS are raising their grandchildren.
What this article SHOULD SAY is GRANDMOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO OWN GRANDSON!
YOUR COMMENTS?
5/15/09
HERE ARE SOME WEDDING TRADITIONS THAT HAVE TO GO !
"Throwing Rice: Does a blushing bride really want to be doused by a storm of hard little pellets that end up getting stuck in her hair, veil, gown, and worse, inside her shoes? Not the most comfortable situation when she's whooping it up to "Brick House" on the dance floor."
Click on the title to get to this Yahoo article which lists well, just about everything about the wedding tradition!
(Bet the publisher of BRIDES MAGAZINE doesn't realize some people have no interest whatsoever in getting married!)
Sister
Click on the title to get to this Yahoo article which lists well, just about everything about the wedding tradition!
(Bet the publisher of BRIDES MAGAZINE doesn't realize some people have no interest whatsoever in getting married!)
Sister
5/10/09
MOTHERS DAY FOR THE NEVER MARRIED NO KIDS SET
Mothers day.... OK, very likely you HAD a mom and a dad... in fact it's near impossible that you didn't ! Even some trees have males and females. But what's it like for those of us who have never become parents ourselves? Well I'd like to see something like the NATIONAL DAY FOR THE CHILDLESS, but I'm afraid it would become a pity fest for those who are undergoing major medical miracles to become fertile.
WHY IS THERE NEVER A CELEBRATION OF CHILDLESSNESS?
Is it possible that some people out there are so under the pressure to have children, feeling even guilt and shame that they dare not try to put themselves through living hell to produce children? Yes it is possible! I've hear of women in their twenties demanding fertility drugs after a mere one year of sex without contraception!
You know what? There is no shame in not having children!
5/8/09
UK's MARIE CLAIR MAGAZINE reports on CELEBRITIES
who are NOT about to get married and NOT about to add to the "baby bump" coverage in the rag sheets! Click on the title above to get to the video!
EXCERPT
"Helen Mirren and director Taylor Hackford have been together since 1986, but Mirren is firmly against having children because, she revealed to Times Online, she was traumatized by an educational childbirth film when she was a teenager. "I swear it traumatized me to this day," she said. "I haven't had children and now I can't look at anything to do with childbirth. It absolutely disgusts me."
EXCERPT
"Helen Mirren and director Taylor Hackford have been together since 1986, but Mirren is firmly against having children because, she revealed to Times Online, she was traumatized by an educational childbirth film when she was a teenager. "I swear it traumatized me to this day," she said. "I haven't had children and now I can't look at anything to do with childbirth. It absolutely disgusts me."
5/3/09
ARE YOU NMNK BECAUSE YOU ARE A KEPT WOMAN ?
I'm not sure being a kept woman (or man) otherwise known as a mistress counts when it comes to being in an alternative bigamist type marriage, but maybe the point here is NEVER MARRIED because you are a mistress! Have you avoided having children, maybe had an abortion, in order to preserve or not mess up your union with another person who is married?
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